So here it is, the book introduces five broad temperament types as: Angel, Textbook, Touchy, Spirited and Grumpy.
Angel
- adapts to environment and whatever changes you throw her way.
- rarely cries
- no terrible twos
- easy-going and even tempered
- it doesn't take much to distract or calm when upset
- few meltdowns
- good sleeper
- adapts easily to big-girl bed
- social, smiling and everyone
- takes things in stride
Textbook
- has reached every milestone like clockwork
- no trouble reading the child's cues
- for the most part a mellow temperament (but has cranky periods)
- easy to soothe and reassure
- goes with the flow when things are introduced slowly
- takes average time to fall asleep
- not frightened by other kids
Touchy (15 % of children)
- ultrasensitive from the beginning
- high-strung and excitable
- flinches at noises
- cries often for no apparent reason
- room has to be warm enough or dark enough to sleep
- hard to fall back asleep
- things have to be introduced slowly and gradually
- shy of strangers as a baby
- tends to clutch to mother
- as a toddler bashful, fearful and cautious
- great at puzzles and games that require concentration
- tend to be good students
Spirited (15% of children)
- aggressive and vocal
- loud screams to get attention
- in social situations, jumps right into the action
- wants the other kids toys
- never a good sleeper
- good eater but can't stay at the table for long
- climbs incessantly and heedlessly
- throws fits when parents don't give him what he wants
- challenging to parent
- born leaders, explorers, entrepreneurs, fearless
Grumpy
- got a chip on their shoulder
- hard to make smile
- dressing and diapering a challenge
- hates being swaddled
- feeding difficult all along
- impatient if things are not right
- quirky eater
- social if wants to be but holds back to assess situation first
- old soul (as if she has been here before and not happy about being back)
- prefers to play on her own
- good at maintaining own boundaries
- can't push them
- very independent as adults
So those are the categories, funny reading it again, but I really do think that babies start out and we all end up different as adults with different temperaments so I guess it makes sense.
On the side I am putting up a poll (and you can select multiple types), lets see what the results show.
Thanks for reading.
John
2 comments:
I'm taking credit for this!! I bought Natalia The Baby Whisperer because the book helped me so much with Nova and she really liked it, and I am assuming she passed it on to you.
Since no one else is around to pat me on the back I guess I'll just have to do it myself. :)
yes. that is right beth. it was you.
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